My kid who has straight As, a 1530 SAT, speaks two
languages fluently, plays sports, and did summer internships in Japan and
Ukraine was rejected from my alma mater Rice University. Worse than that,
it was also my mother’s alma mater. My mother was one of only 100 women
at the whole university when she attended in the late 1950s, and was the first
in her family ever to attend college. She was a major reason I attended
Rice for both a bachelors and an MBA, and this rejection was a spit in both of
our faces. It shows the admissions office is divorced from Rice’s own
history and driving their own agenda.
This along with the college bribery scandal shows college
admissions is irreparably broken. Kids who shouldn’t get in are
admitted. Kids who should be admitted are not, in this case probably due
to an anti-legacy effort, or because my daughter is not “diverse” enough.
I have no doubt at all she would have been accepted if the ethnicity box were
checked differently. She is an honor student, and I was not some alum hoping
for “legacy” to dump my C-student onto my old school.
Over the years I have gotten fellow alumni jobs. Not
job leads, but jobs. Students often reached out to me over LinkedIn for
internship leads since I am one of very few alumni working in Silicon Valley. In the early 2000s I did a marketing project for a group
of professors who were trying to spin out a technology. A few years
earlier I had connected my father’s company to hire a Rice professor for a consulting project.
Despite over 50 years of family connection and my staying
involved, Rice decided to cut ties with me while at the same time letting in
dozens of foreign students with no ties at all, and who will all drop all ties
to Rice once they return home.
Rice has a frighteningly small number of alumni – they graduate
in ten years what or Texas A&M or UCLA does in two years – and should be
nurturing their network, not alienating it. But like the foreign students will do once they are out, I
will now be cutting all ties with Rice. No job leads. No internship
leads. Applications or resumes listing Rice go to the bottom of the pile.
Students can’t find me on LinkedIn since Rice
is deleted from my profile. My own networking efforts will not be hindered
since there are so few Rice alumni in my field. I was a pathfinder.
And after all, why would I help a university that wouldn’t
accept me as a student if I were applying today?