More HR Lies
From the mail bag:
You're waiting because you are not the first choice. And the HR department doesn't have the guts, ethics, or professional courtesy to tell you that.I was brought in by a company to interview for a senior financial position, and from the first phone call it was apparent they were looking to fill the slot in a hurry. They tried to get me to come in for an interview ASAP, and during the interview I found out that the person currently filling the slot is leaving the company for personal reasons with little notice. The company wants the replacement to overlap by a few days to insure a smooth transition, so they want to fill the slot quickly.
During the interview, they kept asking how soon I could start, even asking if I could give my current employer less than two weeks minimum notice. I told them I would be flexible, and left the interview feeling that it went extremely well. The next day they informed me that they "needed to get everyone in the same room to discuss the position" and would let me know about the position in a week.
If this is for a slot they need to fill in a hurry, why the wait?
What is likely going on is that they extended an offer to the first pick, giving that person a week to negotiate, close or reject the offer. They want you hanging on in the mean time in case that deal falls through, in which case they will then extend you an offer. If the first pick accepts, you will find out that the "position has already been filled".
There is nothing wrong with being the second pick. The top two picks for an open position usually have similar resumes, backgrounds and credentials, the "winner" usually determined on something subjective. If it were a "group decision" it could even be that you ARE the first pick with several team members, but lost out by a single vote. Whatever the case, being second pick still means there is the chance you will land the position if the first person bows out. There's nothing to be ashamed about. What is shameful in this case, however, is how this company is deciding to treat you: lying to your face and stringing you along as back-up.
Nancy Persnekapowski did the same thing to me for the high-school homecoming dance. Like I did in that situation, you have to decide if the object of your desire is really worth while, or if the way they are treating you says something deeper about who they are.
I think a truly professional organization would tell you exactly where you stand, and why, allowing you to make the decision that's professionally right for you whether you wanted to stay a candidate. But we know already that HR types lie, break promises, and treat candidates like crap. The question is: how long will candidates put up with it?